One of the most difficult things when you are going through a separation or divorce is the finding space to be kind and loving towards yourself.There is so much going on, you worry about your future, your children and you may experience new feelings that you have never experienced before. The last person that you are […]
When you and a partner separate, whether suddenly or over time, the first emotion is often panic. Your head will be buzzing with a range of questions about how you will cope, what you should you, whether you can you do life alone, what you are you going to have to let go of, whether […]
Last week was super busy and exciting, with all of the International Women’s Day celebrations. I was invited to speak at two amazing events including the Qld Women in Business Summit, this was such an honour. I spoke about ‘Balancing Business and Wonder Womanhood’. The title of the speech was given to me and initially […]
As a lawyer, I understand that we often deal with the legal issues and then wish you good luck for the future, now that the divorce has been finalised. As someone who has been through separation and divorce twice, I know firsthand that there is a lot more that is required than just the legal […]
Thinking of style, the first thing that pops into my mind is clothes. Not all of us are as knowledgeable about fashion and that is OK. But why is it even important to have a style and to be thinking about it when you are going through a divorce, let alone going to all the […]
After separation, you might feel the need to break away from your everyday life for a while. Not only to help heal the heart but to gain a fresh perspective. But what should you do? To me, travelling and tasty food have always had a great attraction. We should of course not overindulge in food […]
After a divorce, a woman tends to feel very lonely, scared and hurt. The prospects of dating again seem like an impossible mountain to climb. It is frightening to think of going through the whole meeting a new guy-motion. And especially so when you have little ones to consider. After working long hours and struggling […]
At almost every single New Year’s party I have been, I find individuals who make the most beautiful New Year’s resolutions. Come February, and the resolutions have been well forgotten. Let’s talk a common language – a goal can roughly be described as a dream you want to achieve. It is something that gives purpose […]
Sometimes life puts little pebbles in our path for us to trip over – an unforeseen outcome to a well-planned action – a divorce or separation can be one of these pebbles (or rocks) that throws our entire rhythm off. There are however a few key affirmations that I live by that can be helpful, […]
When you go through a divorce there are many changes that are going to occur in the coming months. One of the decisions you will need to make is if you revert back to your maiden name or not. There is no right or wrong here it is totally a personal preference and entirely up […]
I believe at any point in our lives, young or old, big or small, that we can choose to push reset to become the best version of ourselves.
Live life out loud and in the pursuit of all things that make you happy. After all, you only get one life.